Thanks guys!
I just cut up 3/8" thick 2" square tubbing the lenght of the crossmember bracket and drilled the holes. I will use the stock bolts to bolt it up to the frame and will get some grade 8 bolts tomorrow to bolt up the crossmember. This should get me the clearance I need.
I think i will mess around and do the same for the shocks but with 3" square tubing. I will cut the corners to form a diamond shape so it fits in the coils, bolt it up to the perch and notch the top so the stock shock sits and bolt it up. Voila, I will get back the 3" i lost. Just for now until I get my shocks!