A little update on my shock dilemma.
For the rear I installed a Bilstein BE5-6248-H5.
Valving, Ext Length, Col Length
255/70, 25.93, 15.91
This is about the perfect length and travel for this 2" RTE lift situation. The past weekend I did the BSROA Fall Heritage and I could see the rear flexing much more as it should, seemed to be a big help. Unfortunately the valving is simply WAY too soft and the truck actually bounces, especially at the right speed on highway expansion joints. What really torques me off is Bilstein on their website has a generic chart and on there for full size truck/SUV with two solid axles these shocks are listed as a "soft" ride. They got that right, way too damn soft though.
So now you know why no one here uses 5125's or 5150's, they aren't available in a firmer damping appropriate for our truck.
I broke down and had a nice discussion with Steve at RTE yesterday about my problem and these are the results. As far as the damping goes, his recommendations for the Bilstein 7100 series shocks:
99 = custom 400/100 - Consider for firm or heavy load. Bad news is these are a custom order and not in stock anywhere.
06 = 360/80 ? Steve says nice ride, similar to OME N107/N108. Many out there seem happy with these. If so I will agree, the OME's seem just right damping wise.
04 = 255/70 ? Way too soft, the vehicle WILL bounce. 5125?s aren?t available in higher damping. I can confirm this, I did some 5125?s last weekend.
As far as the shocks themselves this is what he worked out for me:
Rear = AK7110S-06 - 10" travel, schrader valve, no ext tank.
Ext Length, Col Length
26.06, 16.03
Front = AK7110SB-06 - 10" travel, short body shock, external tank.
Ext Length, Col Length
24.29, 14.06
The rears are a completely different shock than they typically go with for a 3" lift, for that they usually do a short body 12" travel unit which isn't really appropriate for me. On the up side I won't have to deal with an external tank on the rear.
For the front this is the same shock they go with for the 3" RTE lift. The trick here is instead of going with RTE's loop style DII lower front shock adapter which adds 1.25" inches I will go with the Bilstein cross pin adapter (just like factory style and what OME uses on the N107 lower part) to keep the shocks from extending too far and dislocating the 2" lift spring. This will also keep them from bottoming and damaging them with my shorter lift.
I will report back when I get these on. We also decided that I want to do the front cross member extension to clear the drive shaft after the longer travel fronts, just to be on the safe side. I am skipping the watts linkage though, I think with the shorter shocks I can just grind a little on the place where it hits and get by with that. I did confirm that at full axle drop driver side it hits a little, but only needs a tiny little more movement to fully extend the shock on that side. Obviously with the 12" travel rear shocks it is a must to do the RTE watts linkage.