I used to feel the same way. Miss a party for a wedding or some other function? No way!Welcome to Hell A said:We have been invited to her nephew's wedding, which is on the 4th of July. I immediately said, "I'm not going" which became a large cage match fight in the middle of the restaurant. To top it off, she's been asked to be a bridesmaid, which further complicates things. It's a huge WTF for me when anybody plans weddings on a holiday.
Pretty much out of principle, I will not go. But it isn't easy this time under the circumstances, and it could turn into a big deal with the whole family. Not sure if I care.
I've already been accused of avoiding her family's get-togethers, whether it be barbecues, thanksgiving, x-mas... Usually because of my work. I actually enjoy their company.
Traditionally, my friend throws a huge 4th of July party at his house every year. There's that, too.![]()
But! As the years roll on, that 4th of July party will still be there. What's one year for the sake of a happy relationship? It's all about compromise, if you're not willing to do that, then dump her and move on. If she's a keeper, then make a sacrifice and just remember it's a two way street. How many times does she go camping with you?