i cant tell you which is which because over the years they end up getting put back into different holders in the tray. on top of that i have an R380 which changes some things on the relay side. you cannot check the operation of the cruise with the engine off. you have to be going at least 28 mph and have the dash button engaged to get it to engage the pump. under 28 nothing works. turn off the heater, the radio, roll up the windows, and go for a drive over 30mph,press the cc button that looks like a skateboard, and if your steering wheel buttons work right, you will hear a click. then get your ecu rebuilt. if no click,get a new relay. on the r380,it is not the black one. it is either the green or yellow one. i have a bag of extra ones that i use to test with. good luck