On a few short trips to Oahu that was what I felt.
Then I spent a month and a half working there, and found a lot of other things that I liked.
Then I went to Kauai for a tourist trip and loved it.
Then I went to Kauai for work and hated it.
Time for the big island.
Haha, yeah I know what youre saying.
Most people who grew up there love the place, but most of us also have to "get off this fucking rock" at some point as well.
Every island has its highs and lows. Oahu's biggest plus is actually the other islands biggest drawback...Honolulu/Waikiki has a decent nightlife so there is a hell of more to do after 9pm other than see a movie or dropping too much cash at a korean hostess bar.
Maui is also getting a little too Oahu-like as well. New housing and commercial developments everywhere. I could totally see myself living on the big island instead if I ever move back again.